Five Mistakes
The operating system for a life without regret.
You have been taught a lie.
The lie is that mistakes are failures. That they are deviations from the path. That they are something to be avoided, feared, and ashamed of. This is the great anesthetic of our time. It keeps people small, safe, and silent.
The truth is that mistakes are the only path. They are not obstacles; they are the curriculum. They are the data points of a life fully lived. The scars are the proof you were in the arena.
The Five Foundational "Mistakes"
1. Starting Before You Are Ready.
This is not a mistake. This is the law. You will never be "ready." Readiness is a myth. Action creates clarity. Waiting for perfect conditions is a sophisticated form of procrastination. The cost of inaction is always greater than the cost of a mistake.
2. Trusting The Wrong Person.
This is not a mistake. This is a calibration. Betrayal is a powerful teacher. It sharpens your intuition. It forces you to define your boundaries. It teaches you that the only trust that is truly non-negotiable is trust in yourself.
3. Burning It All Down.
This is not a mistake. This is a controlled burn. Sometimes the only way to create space for new growth is to clear the dead wood. A business, a relationship, an identity. Holding on to what is no longer aligned is the real failure. The courage to let go is the ultimate act of sovereignty.
4. Being "Too Much."
This is not a mistake. This is a signal. When you are told you are "too intense," "too direct," or "too passionate," it means you are operating at a frequency that makes the complacent uncomfortable. Do not turn down your volume. Find the people who can handle the signal.
5. Choosing The Harder Path.
This is not a mistake. This is the path. The obstacle is the way. Comfort is a cage. Voluntary hardship forges resilience. It is in the struggle, the grind, and the deliberate pursuit of difficulty that character is revealed and strength is built.
About The Author
I'm Clinton Wasylishen. This framework is not an academic theory. It is the synthesis of a life spent in the arena: building businesses, competing in Ironman triathlons, raising my sons. Every principle here was paid for in sweat, scars, and experience. These are the lessons that remain after everything else has burned away.
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